It is clear that both the quantum physics equations and gravitational theory as they stand now are fatally flawed, so of course I wouldn't assume either is true. I have just run into so many people who start blabbering about Einstein this and quantum theory that, most of them probably didn't remember that Einstein unsuccessfully spent the last years of his life trying to get a unified theory.
Almost 100 years have passed and no unified theory yet...
Maybe it is on a dead end and the true answer lies elsewhere? I have personally experienced "energy" that is not explainable by science as it stands now, but I guess anybody has experienced gravity could say the same thing...
Clearly there is some force that animates inanimate chemicals, otherwise life wouldn't exist. We can call this a variety of things, but its essence is that it creates order out of disorder, eg. reverses entropy. This ER (entropy reversing) force provably exists, if only by process of elimination for the skeptics and direct experience for those who can sense it.
So, we have an ER force that is powerful enough to get massive atoms to self-organize a bunch of chemicals. The physical work required to move all those atoms in just the right way is far more than what would be required to animate electromagnetic energy. In any case, since energy relates to matter, if ER works on matter (it does), it should be expected that it would work on EMR (electromagnetic radiation), electricity, magnetism, plasma, etc.
If you are still with me, then we can now explain "scientifically" the vast majority of paranormal phenomenon, with the simple existence of the ER force. For example, UFO's look like lights that maintain shape and zip around like physical ships. They could just be lights self-organized by ER! If seawater and rocks can be conscious, a magnetic field and EMR could also be conscious and it would sure look like a ghost. I believe I read somewhere the presence of anomalous magnetic fields where ghosts were seen.
Here comes a bit of a leap...
I personally cannot sense it, but there are plenty of people that can feel the life force in plants and even rocks. It is said to be at a much lower level, especially with rocks, but if a small amount of ER is needed even for inanimate objects (note ER is based on reversing entropy which does not differentiate between alive and dead, other than the amount of ER needed), then it is possible that ER relates to gravity in some way. Probably not directly, but maybe in a way similar to how magnetism relates to electricity.
I feel a lot more confident about the earlier parts of this post, the ER <--> gravity link is something I just came up with and haven't really thought it through yet. Gravity is just so strange, in many ways it is a paranormal phenomenon, but we can't very well classify something that is undeniable as paranormal...
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