Adding my two cents
Watched the film on December 25th. Had high expectations of the 3D graphics and very low expectations of the story. The story met my very low expectations and the 3D graphics blew my mind. I was especially impressed by the scenes were framed/shot. Imho, I think there were a lot of shooting angles and panning, zooming, strafing, etc. camera techniques which used here that would be the "standard" for 3D films to come.
I agree with most that the 3D effects would serve to create the dissociative state in the viewer quicker. Personally, to avoid this kind of dissociation, I try to watch the movie by taking notice of how scenes are shot, how fluid or choppy the transitions between scenes are, the camera angles, the details of the characters, background, etc. I think it helps me to be aware of myself watching a movie and rather than being immersed in it.
Of course, when you're immersed in the movie (i.e. in a dissociated state) it would be very difficult to realize that you've dissociated and then pull yourself back out.
Regarding the movie having an "anti-war" theme, I beg to differ. I do understand that most people would agree to the idea that the movie promotes an anti-war sentiment. But, imho, that is just the dressing for the underlying theme. I think that the movie encourages an equally violent reaction to violence. Which, for the long time members and lurkers of this forum are familiar with, is one of the desired reactions that the ruling elite want from the populace. TPTB know how to deal with a violent mob/population, not unlike how there are agents provocatuers planted in a peaceful demonstration so that the group can be riled up into an angry mob and the police can use physical force against the group.
The "sex" part of the film also wasn't so subtle. The way the aliens are drawn, there were no aliens that didn't fit the "sexy mold". There were no pregnant aliens, old frail aliens, etc. Nothing "undesirable" to look at.
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There are some other details I noticed while watching:
- When the JakeSully (the alien) finally revealed that he knew of the human plot against the aliens and was subsequently rejected by Neytiri, and then Neytiri then takes him back and rides with him when he gets a bigger/badder flying thingamajig;
This kinda reminded me of the meme that the girl goes for the guy with the big fancy red car.
- Jake Sully the crippled human much prefers his "virtual life" of JakeSully the alien.
Not unlike how people playing video games really immerse themselves and some even go so far as to like the virtual world better than the real world.