Predicting a hit regarding men losing most of their sex drive

"Q: (L) Now, I was just reading in "Bringers of the Dawn" about male energy and female energy and it says: "We have said that the male vibration will transform in a very short period of time. We will not tell you why or how because some of you will consider it to be entirely too ominous, however, we will say that as the waves continue to come there will be a unilateral rising of consciousness within the population. At a certain point, when men are in the deepest point of mastering feeling, the feeling center will be activated. This will either occur gently or it will be blown wide open." What will be "entirely too ominous?"

A: Energy redirection.

Q: (L) Energy direction is going to happen and that is what you are saying is the ominous thing here?

A: Overview.

Q: (L) Well, what does energy direction specifically mean? What kind of energy?

A: Sexual.

A: [...] Men will lose most of their drive in favor of more spiritual pursuits. It is the sex drive that is at the root of most of the historical aggression and lack of feeling on the part of the male."

perhaps this sexual energy redirection will be up the spine as opposed to spurting out into the wild winds.

on the way up the spine from genitals to crown resides the emotional energy centre.. activation of this machinery could prove unsettling to some men.
 
OpenHeartMonk said:
perhaps this sexual energy redirection will be up the spine as opposed to spurting out into the wild winds.

This is an important exercise in Taoist yogic practice. Cultivating "ching chi" (sexual energy) and guiding it step by step up the governor channel to crown. It takes a while to be able to do this as the energy movement is mostly through mind and intent. It's very interesting to read that it may become spontaneous with arrival of the wave.
 
Wu Wei Wu said:
Haha Aimarok, my partner was the same way. She was not at all pleased to learn that sex didn't quite 'get me off' and that I'd rather read a book.

I've definitely noticed many of the same occurrences. Meditative practices in particular seem to stem the sex drive. It is clear that there is a real competition in my life for energy between the sexual desires and the pursuit of knowledge. Of I persist in knowledge, I grow stronger, feel great, and feel focused. On occasion when I have indulged I feel lethargic, empty, and somewhat dazed.

I would like to add that I have had similar feelings over the past few months, after transitioning to ketosis it was like 'BOOM' - complete drop in libido. The sensation is very strange indeed - At one stage every attractive (and even not so attractive) female that passed my gaze would leave an imprint in my mind... leading to some sort of sexual fantasy which would eventually lead to masturbation.

It is only now that I am able look back and truly appreciate the length of time and amount of energy I had invested in this. Many hours of my life have been occupied by fantasy, leading to a surge in dopamine followed by a brutal collapse - "Marnia Robinson" calls this 'The Passion Cycle' (the author of Cupids poison arrow, I agree with everyone on here who recommends reading this book - fascinating!)

We males are said to produce up to twentytimes as much testosterone than our female counterparts - which plays a large role in why we are so fiercely driven to copulate as frequently as possible. But is this our natural state of biology? It has been 3 months since I went keto, and my perception seems to have changed phenomenally in this time. It is rather exhilarating to say that when I gaze at an attractive female, I can appreciate their beauty... Although that appreciation doesn't seem to be accompanied by anything of a sexual nature. The intrusive thoughts, the urge to masturbate... seems to have completely disappeared. I am 20 years old and unfortunate my girlfriend does not feel exactly the same way that I do... which has caused some friction.

The problem is not that I do not find her attractive, its that I don't look at ANY woman that way anymore - which I can only see as being beneficial for my own Work and being. Not to objectify women and to be one step closer to seeing everyone more objectively is a blessing IMO.

I am sincerely happy I found this thread because I was starting to doubt my perceptions. To know that the C's have indicated mans energies being redirected - coupled with the other testimonials on this thread have been a great help for me, thank you for this thread and for all of the input. Bless you all
 
I've noticed a decrease in my libido too. I haven't thought of women as much sexually, though appreciate their beauty. I'm in my late 20's and haven't masturbated for over 7 months now. I feel less of a need to and it seems a drain and waste of energy.

With that, my testosterone has been low for about a year now, less than 150. It seemed to be causing me some fatigue and tiredness problems. I've been taking Now Foods Tribulus 1000mg 45% twice a day and it has boosted it a few hundred points.
 
In the past, i had read from many sources that libido changed as we worked on ourselves, also that chastity was part of spiritual development in some circles. In my own development, after having lived a normal sexual life, fathering four wonderful children, and pretty much always being in a marital relationship since adolesence, there came a point where i realised how much i was a 'user' of the women in my life, (12 long lasting relationships between ages 17-38). Because of this realisation, at age 38, after a separation i decided to go it alone until i felt i had changed enough myself to be worthy of my next relationship.

The thing is that i am presently 55, and have been praticing chastity ever since (17 years). and only now, after this long period of inner-work (on my relationship to women) do i feel that there might be one more person in my life as a life-partner, then again maybe not? The point here being, that i believe that a certain change on that level is bound to take place as we change ourselves. Today, i feel that this was a very necessary and beneficial transition period.
 
This is one, if not the toughest battle I've had to face so far (there have been many others of course!), but more so due to the amount of effort it has taken to move away from the emotional hold it has had over me. So "men losing their sex drive" could also perhaps be read as, "men addressing their sex drive".

As an early teenager I always had enough to keep me occupied and wasn't particularly interested in girls, until I was 15 years old. I was burnt not long after that due to a relationship that ended abruptly due to both of our behaviour bringing out the worst in one another. That particular incident set me off on to a road of destruction. I made a point of not allowing myself to get emotionally involved and so would simply jump from one girl to the next. Whenever it was brought to my attention that a girl was attracted to me I always felt obligated to move beyond being "just friends" and would make a move accordingly. In fact, most of the time I didn't even bother trying to be a friend.
Quite simply it was nothing more than a conquest as far as I was concerned and what with victory being a short lived affair, there was always another conquest on the horizon. This behaviour started to get rather monotonous and relationships were always brief.
Further down the line, I met a young woman who was extremely attractive as well as older than me and when her friend pointed out that she was interested me (I was baffled at the time as to why she would be), but as usual I wasn't going to turn an opportunity down and so quickly decided to give it a go except this particular time I was actually rather taken by the young woman concerned. Well, the shoe was on the other foot and it was me who ended up being "conquered". One minute everything was going along swimmingly and the next she said that it was over. The feeling of being used was not a pleasant one, but rather than seeing that the role this woman was playing was no different to the one I had previously adopted, no way was I going to let myself get involved in such a way ever again and immediately reverted straight back to my "normal" behaviour.
My reputation as a womanizer grew. It boiled down to a simple yes or no (would I have sex with them or not) regarding pretty much every girl / woman I saw, I can recall sitting on buses watching all the women go by playing this ridiculous game. I just presumed that this was normal for all young men. All along though my behaviour did not change and I continued to play around. Once the girl was smitten, the game was over and it was on to the next one. At the time, I couldn't see that there was anything wrong with my behaviour, I didn't make any promises, surely this was just what a "man" does? Conversation with my associates at the time was never really about anything other than "well? did you or didn't you?" there was no regard for the other person involved, treating a woman badly appeared to be seen as a sign of strength!
It was only later in life that it dawned on me that my approach was shocking to say the least. Analyzing the situation, I noticed that all I'd ever wanted during that period was to actually feel wanted / liked, yet once I knew that I was, the novelty soon wore off. I've spent many hours, days, weeks, months and years having to work my through all the emotions of the varying situations that I'd bottled up inside that correlate with why I behaved in such a way. As I slowly worked through my behaviour patterns, I became aware that even just eye contact with a woman in public was an issue. Simply being noticed was another program to address.
On the occasion when I was in the mood for some physical interaction and my partner was not, I would take this as a personal snub and would became resentful enough, that I would adopt a rude and dismissive response to any further interaction. It took a long time for me to be able to check myself whenever the feeling arose and realize the stupidity of such a response.
It was plainly obvious that some serious effort would be necessary to be able to progress further with "the work". Until this was dealt with, I was well aware that it would be hindering any growth. It certainly didn't help being constantly bombarded by images of nubile young women through the form of advertising, day in, day out, but it was used to my advantage as an alarm clock of sorts, to check myself when any such thoughts arose. Reading up on such matters and plenty of self reflection to get an understanding of what I could do, led me towards what I needed to do to get out of this particular lesson. It has taken a long time to be able to handle the thoughts that spring to mind and not react, but progress was / has been made!

To bring this to an end, the reason for this post was due to me having some time to work through any buried emotions and/or experiences and I was looking within to actually see if there were any remnants of this particular issue hidden away, that I'd perhaps missed. I was able to pull upon the emotion/energy involved and deep, deep down within I managed to grasp and hopefully release what could be described as total disgust for each of my actions rolled into a feeling of dirtiness that a shower, hot or cold, would not be able to cleanse. I was discussing the matter with a friend at work and how I had no qualms about sleeping around when i was younger, but on reflection how many of those times I now realised that I came away feeling dirty, but simply just refused to acknowledge it at the time, primarily by keeping myself distracted by moving along to the next candidate. As I tried to picture this to him, he demanded I stop and literally started backing away as it was reminding him of his own behaviour and he was now feeling what I was actually attempting to describe.
This post admittedly is a little wishy washy with detail, but I've tried to keep it to the point and perhaps see "the hit" from another angle...
 
Most of my life I thought I had a problem because I was just never bothered about having sex or not. It lead to many problems in my relationships because my partners thought I didn't desire them. I would rather have a nice cup of tea than have sex. It kinda makes sense now after reading the above statements from the C's.
Building honest platonic relationships comes higher on the list for me and if I can achieve a deep non sexual connection with someone it is worth all the boyfriends I've had in the past.
Along with it I've lost interest in looking sexy or trying to appear a certain way. I stopped wearing make up and wear boyish clothes. Of course I still have hang ups about how I look but it's a lot lot less than what it used to be and I'm so much more comfortable in my body.
Some people may feel dismay at loosing their libido but I think it is so freeing and makes a person more natural. If that makes sense. There is a part of false personality that is lost when you aren't trying to chase someone for sexual kicks and trying to put your best "self" forward in order to impress.
 
lainey said:
Most of my life I thought I had a problem because I was just never bothered about having sex or not. It lead to many problems in my relationships because my partners thought I didn't desire them. I would rather have a nice cup of tea than have sex. It kinda makes sense now after reading the above statements from the C's.
Building honest platonic relationships comes higher on the list for me and if I can achieve a deep non sexual connection with someone it is worth all the boyfriends I've had in the past.

This is a big problems for me last few years too. I've never been a very sexual person, may be a bit crude and crass but rarely walked the talk. I used to use sex to make me feel better about myself, like an affirmation that I'm loved, but since I began to learn to love myself I want less sexual intimacy and more deep emotional intimacy. This doesn't work well for my very earthly and material partner of 17 years and I feel guilty that he is getting deprived from something that is his instinct (at this point in time). So I engage anyhow just to help him out and no matter how it goes down or how much effort I put in to keeping the energy transaction 'holy' I ways feel exhausted after it. And a bit dirty. Mostly I cannot keep my mind on the task anyhow and am busy thinking about some mundane thing like cooking dinner.

Seems like this all might fall apart soon tho, our worlds are going in different directions. Then I get to deal with all the emotions of him moving on... That will be interesting doncha think!!
 
Gosh I know how you feel! Many many times I would have sex because that's what couples/"normal" people "do" and all the while I'm hoping it will be over quickly. I know that's terrible, did enjoy making the other person feel good but at the same time I was thinking gosh what a waste of energy, what else could we put this energy towards? I wonder how many STS are standing around right now just waiting to hoover this up. Took what little passion I had right out of it. It's not like you can say, not tonight honey, there's probably about 20 lizard people with straws behind the curtains.
Easier to just be single nowadays or tell everyone your celibate.
 
When I was a young man my sexual drive used to drive me insane. I use that word advisedly, looking back at some of the things I did under it's influence. Nothing too awful, but for someone with a developed conscience, bad enough. I have spent my life doing the work, in some form or another in between periods of sleep, and transmutation of sexual energy is a big component. Now the sexual urge is completely gone and I'm grateful for that. The aspect of seeking physical gratification always repulsed me. Even the most loving, sharing love making at a certain moment becomes all about self gratification ,and I always found that to be ugly. I'm a little concerned that the loss of libido might reflect an underlying health issue as it's not "normal", but I would never want it back in my life.

Fortunately my relationship with my wife of 41 years has never been based on sex so there's no problem there. Physical contact, cuddles, is very important though. It's easy to neglect that when the sex drive isn't driving you to it.
 
In my early teens I had sexual fantasies, but not from porn but seeing pretty women's faces and the feminine shape (not this stick figure that media portrays as a woman). The native cultures showed women with feminine shape. Nowadays we have extremes, whether it be anorexic or with huge curves (and the ridiculous implants to do this).


Porn itself was and still is weird to me, just artificial feeling- like looking at a photoshopped photo.

My first time I was 18 and with that girlfriend it started off crazy, but the drive wore off and the cuddling and touching was what felt great during sex.

I'm not exactly sure that sex is the problem. There were times that I could tell a difference from sex with intimacy to just sex (like when the relationship has gone south, or the act driven by some misused energy like a heated debate). Just sex would make me feel tired afterwards, that stereotype of men falling asleep after sex applied.

In between relationships, my sex drive was very low.

Being single for a bit more than half a year, my sex drive is very low. I'm not sure I will have a girlfriend, because I realized that I have to draw the line on my own goals and views of reality- and that is usually not really popular with most people, who seem to rather believe the mass lies and stick to roles of society. I don't think I could feel sexual towards someone who didn't connect in that way.

So, I don't really think sex is the issue, but like Cupid's Poisoned Arrow explained that this super heated passion creates this high and withdrawal.
I suppose that's what drives many into these more extreme things to feel good in sex (why 50 shades, etc are so popular these days for people).
 
I want to chip in here that, regarding diet, there is a fair amount (understatement) of manipulation going on as well that plays a part in all this. There are legions of testosterone inhibitors and synthetic estrogens that have been interjected into the food supply, personal environment and indirectly into the water supply that are a part of this phenomenon.

Veganism, BPA, DES, GMOs, synthetic estrogens and estrogen mimics, endocrine disruptors, thalates (artificial fragrances), benzene derivatives, parabens, atrazine (sprayed on corn and corn-fed products - leaches into water table), all act to both masculinize the female and effeminize the male resulting in lower sperm counts and testosterone production. This dovetails nicely with the population reduction agenda and a populace that is more docile and controllable. A triple win for the PTB when you factor in $$$ profits.

So, it may not all be 'on you'. And it may not be a natural phenomenon except to the extent that it is natural for a male to 'lose interest' when subjected to this massive hidden chemical attack along with all the stress, and mental programming that we are assaulted with.
 
Laying with the Medusa.

Though having noticed that there is a lot of reduction in the sex drive, it has never been to the extent that some men and women I know of, are dealing with. I have always had trouble with porn pictures, shows and the like. It always seemed that these were very degrading for both men and women. This type of thing would make me feel ill.

Recently, some strong urge took a hold of me. I wanted to get to some understanding of what was going on, so I allowed things to progress, in my mind. The urge turned into a vision of a beautiful woman. It felt like I was falling into a black pit. I then jumped up and began to swing at this entity as if striking out with a sword, which came into my hand. The beautiful woman turned into a shrieking entity with tentacles. As I struck several blows, the tentacles were flailing wildly but were pulling back from covering over me. The foul, shrieking entity seemed very unhappy about this turn of events and went away from my sight.

Now, I seem to be less bothered by these moments of temptation that have plagued me for most of my life. I am not quite sure what this vision meant, other than it is what it is. Being free from that constant tormenting is a good thing, I think. Seeing the changes being reflected in the 3D world since this vision, the vision starts to make sense in a practical manner. Self discipline is not nearly as much of a battle lately and should the torment surface again, I will be glad to use that sword again should it become available for use.

Remember, this was a vision I had. It was not a 3D event that took place. It was all in my mind. I have some confirmation about the results since this took place. I didn't ask for confirmation but it came through my ex wife telling me about something that happened. When she told me, she was struggling with a description involving an evil entity and when I offered tentacles for the description, she said yes, that's it, like an octopus. Being vigilant and aware is important, at all times.
 
This has happened to me as well, ever since I went full keto diet, my sex drive have decreased considerably, I feel weird in a sense, but the good part is that I can concentrate better, I used to read a couple of pages and then get bored, but now I have been able to sit for hours and I don't get that feeling anymore.
I have mental clarity, it is good.... :cool2:
 
Can Won said:
This is one, if not the toughest battle I've had to face so far (there have been many others of course!), but more so due to the amount of effort it has taken to move away from the emotional hold it has had over me. So "men losing their sex drive" could also perhaps be read as, "men addressing their sex drive".

As an early teenager I always had enough to keep me occupied and wasn't particularly interested in girls, until I was 15 years old. I was burnt not long after that due to a relationship that ended abruptly due to both of our behaviour bringing out the worst in one another. That particular incident set me off on to a road of destruction. I made a point of not allowing myself to get emotionally involved and so would simply jump from one girl to the next. Whenever it was brought to my attention that a girl was attracted to me I always felt obligated to move beyond being "just friends" and would make a move accordingly. In fact, most of the time I didn't even bother trying to be a friend.
Quite simply it was nothing more than a conquest as far as I was concerned and what with victory being a short lived affair, there was always another conquest on the horizon. This behaviour started to get rather monotonous and relationships were always brief.
Further down the line, I met a young woman who was extremely attractive as well as older than me and when her friend pointed out that she was interested me (I was baffled at the time as to why she would be), but as usual I wasn't going to turn an opportunity down and so quickly decided to give it a go except this particular time I was actually rather taken by the young woman concerned. Well, the shoe was on the other foot and it was me who ended up being "conquered". One minute everything was going along swimmingly and the next she said that it was over. The feeling of being used was not a pleasant one, but rather than seeing that the role this woman was playing was no different to the one I had previously adopted, no way was I going to let myself get involved in such a way ever again and immediately reverted straight back to my "normal" behaviour.
My reputation as a womanizer grew. It boiled down to a simple yes or no (would I have sex with them or not) regarding pretty much every girl / woman I saw, I can recall sitting on buses watching all the women go by playing this ridiculous game. I just presumed that this was normal for all young men. All along though my behaviour did not change and I continued to play around. Once the girl was smitten, the game was over and it was on to the next one. At the time, I couldn't see that there was anything wrong with my behaviour, I didn't make any promises, surely this was just what a "man" does? Conversation with my associates at the time was never really about anything other than "well? did you or didn't you?" there was no regard for the other person involved, treating a woman badly appeared to be seen as a sign of strength!
It was only later in life that it dawned on me that my approach was shocking to say the least. Analyzing the situation, I noticed that all I'd ever wanted during that period was to actually feel wanted / liked, yet once I knew that I was, the novelty soon wore off. I've spent many hours, days, weeks, months and years having to work my through all the emotions of the varying situations that I'd bottled up inside that correlate with why I behaved in such a way. As I slowly worked through my behaviour patterns, I became aware that even just eye contact with a woman in public was an issue. Simply being noticed was another program to address.
On the occasion when I was in the mood for some physical interaction and my partner was not, I would take this as a personal snub and would became resentful enough, that I would adopt a rude and dismissive response to any further interaction. It took a long time for me to be able to check myself whenever the feeling arose and realize the stupidity of such a response.
It was plainly obvious that some serious effort would be necessary to be able to progress further with "the work". Until this was dealt with, I was well aware that it would be hindering any growth. It certainly didn't help being constantly bombarded by images of nubile young women through the form of advertising, day in, day out, but it was used to my advantage as an alarm clock of sorts, to check myself when any such thoughts arose. Reading up on such matters and plenty of self reflection to get an understanding of what I could do, led me towards what I needed to do to get out of this particular lesson. It has taken a long time to be able to handle the thoughts that spring to mind and not react, but progress was / has been made!

To bring this to an end, the reason for this post was due to me having some time to work through any buried emotions and/or experiences and I was looking within to actually see if there were any remnants of this particular issue hidden away, that I'd perhaps missed. I was able to pull upon the emotion/energy involved and deep, deep down within I managed to grasp and hopefully release what could be described as total disgust for each of my actions rolled into a feeling of dirtiness that a shower, hot or cold, would not be able to cleanse. I was discussing the matter with a friend at work and how I had no qualms about sleeping around when i was younger, but on reflection how many of those times I now realised that I came away feeling dirty, but simply just refused to acknowledge it at the time, primarily by keeping myself distracted by moving along to the next candidate. As I tried to picture this to him, he demanded I stop and literally started backing away as it was reminding him of his own behaviour and he was now feeling what I was actually attempting to describe.
This post admittedly is a little wishy washy with detail, but I've tried to keep it to the point and perhaps see "the hit" from another angle...
I just want to thank you for sharing this can won. It can be a difficult realisation to come to. I acted the same way when I was younger. Not because I even wanted the sex but because I wanted the attention. Like I said above, I had literally no sex drive but I wanted so much to be accepted I thought that having sex with men would make them like me. I was so naive. Once I had gotten the attention, I got bored and moved on because it wasn't the right kind of attention that I got. Basically I was searching for the love that I didn't receive from my parents through my sexual encounters with men. I was searching for something deep and everlasting but the way I went about it made having anything of value impossible. So I would reject the man as unacceptable because I didn't get the kind of love that I craved. I hurt a lot of people who didn't deserve it this way and coming to terms with my behaviours is a difficult task. It's hard to forgive yourself when you suddenly realize all the pain you have caused. For sure it's a work in progress. Now I am a little wiser I am much better at not getting myself into these situations, I can deal with being single and am quite happy in my own company. Once I started to like myself I stopped searching for validation from others.
 
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