purplehaze
Jedi Master
. . . and the one you preserve may be you own
Following is a list of psychopathic predator cues explained in such a way that hopefully will be comprehensible to the greatest number of you. Picking up on some of these cues could potentially make a difference between life and death. The perpetrators of these cues are more often than not the perpetrators of some very serious crimes. No time to sugar coat this stuff. I call it as I’ve seen it, both personally and professionally. The present stage of scientific research into the mind of psychopaths is in its infancy and the current recommendation is to stay away.
Blame Game = Predator Faultless
How perfect are they? This cue is crazy making, especially if you have a mission to correct inappropriate behavior. It is glaring if you don’t get caught up in the rhetoric. It is admirable when somebody owns up to their mistakes. However, predators will blame others. Craziness is created when you attempt to help them see how their inappropriate actions clearly caused a result. Predators are faultless and most are masters at the blame game. The more you try to convince them the more you find yourself believing their version.
Barb Producer = Predator Control
Aren’t they fun to be around? This cue can really be a draw. Seasoned predators have an uncanny ability to demean others with a barrage of barbs and deliver it in such a way that their audience (fan club) finds the episode enduring. Barbs are short “picking on” phrases delivered toward a target for the benefit of control. Predators always win in barb exchanges. Do not get involved. If a barb is launched your way ~ walk away lest you want to be under their control. They will play with their target like a cat plays with a mouse. Predators love this incessant bantering. A real crowd pleaser.
The Questioner = Predator Ammo
This is a “doozie” if you are personally involved with a predator. Be very careful what you tell them because it will surely bite you in the butt in the future. And believe me it will not be shot back in the way you meant it. This cue feigns interest and can get you involved with them because you think they care. Couldn’t care less. They are only gathering information. What they do is use your own words as ammo. A way you can detect the difference is when somebody is genuinely interested they will nod or give some form of verbal response during your answer. Predators do not have the ability to see another’s point of view so you will get nothing. Their only interest is memorizing what you say for ammo.
Shallowness = Predator Unemotional
Don’t confuse predator’s question with genuine interest. What you are looking for is body language during your answers to their questions. If a person is genuinely interested then you typically hear feedback stuff like “yeah I know what you mean” or something indicating empathy. If you are talking to a predator they are memorizing what you say for ammo. Fact is they cannot “know what you mean” for they do not have that level of brain activity. This one is a cue worth noting when talking to anybody. If you are talking to a disinterested person they are not worth your precious time regardless.
Malicious Quirks = Predator Disgust
Predators are real control freaks. You will discover this behavior cue in their head region. What you look for is their reaction to your behaviors. These reactions are disgust disguised as quirks. Mine use to turn his head slightly, squint that turned eye and dip his head all in the same motion. At first I thought it was a playful gesture. In time I discovered it as cue of disgust. Boy did I send him into the realm of disgust a bunch.
No Eye Contact = Predator Avoidance
Lack of eye contact is easy to see if you look for it. No eye contact is forthcoming when discussing emotional topics, predators are a “no can do” on these types of subjects. However, you will receive direct eye contact when a predator is delivering a directive. FYI ~ a predator’s direct eye contact directive means perform or you will pay, pay, pay. Don’t get involved then you don’t need to worry.
The Self-Promoter = Predator Insecurity
Wow, this one caught me off guard until after. These type are very, very good at self promotion. No doubt my predator was highly intelligent, but he had me thinking he was next to God. I still chuckle at myself. Predators self promote by using their fan club. It’s subtle. What makes their promotion convincing is the truth in numbers concept. They are always working the crowd and you will be thoroughly convinced they are the best, brightest . . . how can the whole fan club be wrong. Not wrong, controlled.
Demeanor Changer = Predator Mask
This one I witnessed several times and I recall being thrown back a bit each time. The one that sticks out in my mind was when my predator was in my office berating me about something and in an instant his entire demeanor changed when he noticed a client walking toward the office. I was so amazed by what I had just witnessed that I sat back in my chair dumbfounded as he waltzed out of my office to greet his business prey. How many times have you been in a heated exchange and needed a little time to shack it off. Predators do not because they are not emotionally involved ~ nothing to shake off.
The Exaggerated Smile = Predator Deception
Easy one, take the time to notice. Empathetic individuals smile with their eyes as well as their mouths. If you see vacancy in the eyes with a smile across the lips - Beware.
“Beware of the Hand Shake” = Predator Preferred Contract
Predators are notorious liars, whether they need to or not. Their lying keeps you off balance. Eventually you will be spinning out of your own control and into theirs. A hand shake means absolutely nothing to them unless a term of the shake benefits them. They will lie and lie big to get themselves out of an oral contract that does not serve them well. Best case scenario is never contract with a predator ~ in the alternative routinely reduce all your contracts to writing lest you want to be left holding the bag.
No denying these absence of empathy types share the planet with empathetic types. When the two worlds collide empathy is not a benefit. Avoid a collision with awareness. Exhibiting one or a combination of these cues does not guarantee you a predator. Brain scan before marriage . . . hmm.
http://predator-awareness.healthylifestylegeek.com/predator-awareness-life-preserving-cues/
Following is a list of psychopathic predator cues explained in such a way that hopefully will be comprehensible to the greatest number of you. Picking up on some of these cues could potentially make a difference between life and death. The perpetrators of these cues are more often than not the perpetrators of some very serious crimes. No time to sugar coat this stuff. I call it as I’ve seen it, both personally and professionally. The present stage of scientific research into the mind of psychopaths is in its infancy and the current recommendation is to stay away.
Blame Game = Predator Faultless
How perfect are they? This cue is crazy making, especially if you have a mission to correct inappropriate behavior. It is glaring if you don’t get caught up in the rhetoric. It is admirable when somebody owns up to their mistakes. However, predators will blame others. Craziness is created when you attempt to help them see how their inappropriate actions clearly caused a result. Predators are faultless and most are masters at the blame game. The more you try to convince them the more you find yourself believing their version.
Barb Producer = Predator Control
Aren’t they fun to be around? This cue can really be a draw. Seasoned predators have an uncanny ability to demean others with a barrage of barbs and deliver it in such a way that their audience (fan club) finds the episode enduring. Barbs are short “picking on” phrases delivered toward a target for the benefit of control. Predators always win in barb exchanges. Do not get involved. If a barb is launched your way ~ walk away lest you want to be under their control. They will play with their target like a cat plays with a mouse. Predators love this incessant bantering. A real crowd pleaser.
The Questioner = Predator Ammo
This is a “doozie” if you are personally involved with a predator. Be very careful what you tell them because it will surely bite you in the butt in the future. And believe me it will not be shot back in the way you meant it. This cue feigns interest and can get you involved with them because you think they care. Couldn’t care less. They are only gathering information. What they do is use your own words as ammo. A way you can detect the difference is when somebody is genuinely interested they will nod or give some form of verbal response during your answer. Predators do not have the ability to see another’s point of view so you will get nothing. Their only interest is memorizing what you say for ammo.
Shallowness = Predator Unemotional
Don’t confuse predator’s question with genuine interest. What you are looking for is body language during your answers to their questions. If a person is genuinely interested then you typically hear feedback stuff like “yeah I know what you mean” or something indicating empathy. If you are talking to a predator they are memorizing what you say for ammo. Fact is they cannot “know what you mean” for they do not have that level of brain activity. This one is a cue worth noting when talking to anybody. If you are talking to a disinterested person they are not worth your precious time regardless.
Malicious Quirks = Predator Disgust
Predators are real control freaks. You will discover this behavior cue in their head region. What you look for is their reaction to your behaviors. These reactions are disgust disguised as quirks. Mine use to turn his head slightly, squint that turned eye and dip his head all in the same motion. At first I thought it was a playful gesture. In time I discovered it as cue of disgust. Boy did I send him into the realm of disgust a bunch.
No Eye Contact = Predator Avoidance
Lack of eye contact is easy to see if you look for it. No eye contact is forthcoming when discussing emotional topics, predators are a “no can do” on these types of subjects. However, you will receive direct eye contact when a predator is delivering a directive. FYI ~ a predator’s direct eye contact directive means perform or you will pay, pay, pay. Don’t get involved then you don’t need to worry.
The Self-Promoter = Predator Insecurity
Wow, this one caught me off guard until after. These type are very, very good at self promotion. No doubt my predator was highly intelligent, but he had me thinking he was next to God. I still chuckle at myself. Predators self promote by using their fan club. It’s subtle. What makes their promotion convincing is the truth in numbers concept. They are always working the crowd and you will be thoroughly convinced they are the best, brightest . . . how can the whole fan club be wrong. Not wrong, controlled.
Demeanor Changer = Predator Mask
This one I witnessed several times and I recall being thrown back a bit each time. The one that sticks out in my mind was when my predator was in my office berating me about something and in an instant his entire demeanor changed when he noticed a client walking toward the office. I was so amazed by what I had just witnessed that I sat back in my chair dumbfounded as he waltzed out of my office to greet his business prey. How many times have you been in a heated exchange and needed a little time to shack it off. Predators do not because they are not emotionally involved ~ nothing to shake off.
The Exaggerated Smile = Predator Deception
Easy one, take the time to notice. Empathetic individuals smile with their eyes as well as their mouths. If you see vacancy in the eyes with a smile across the lips - Beware.
“Beware of the Hand Shake” = Predator Preferred Contract
Predators are notorious liars, whether they need to or not. Their lying keeps you off balance. Eventually you will be spinning out of your own control and into theirs. A hand shake means absolutely nothing to them unless a term of the shake benefits them. They will lie and lie big to get themselves out of an oral contract that does not serve them well. Best case scenario is never contract with a predator ~ in the alternative routinely reduce all your contracts to writing lest you want to be left holding the bag.
No denying these absence of empathy types share the planet with empathetic types. When the two worlds collide empathy is not a benefit. Avoid a collision with awareness. Exhibiting one or a combination of these cues does not guarantee you a predator. Brain scan before marriage . . . hmm.
http://predator-awareness.healthylifestylegeek.com/predator-awareness-life-preserving-cues/
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