I have been an infrequent contributor here for the last couple of years, although an avid reader and a regular visitor. When I first found the site I though that joining QFS would be a good path forward, and noting the requirement to be active in the forums, I set out to do that. But over time I found I really had little to say, particularly in view of the depth of talent and wisdom that demonstrably resides on this forum and I stopped trying to say something just for the sake of saying it and devoted myself to reading and then more reading.
In terms of life path, I've been a spiritual seeker all my life, with frequent detours. When I was 20 I had a "conversion experience" and was a Pentecostal for some 14 years, was a lay preacher for a few of those years and eventually managed to extricate myself when I looked at my life and found what I was preaching was not real in my life and did not work. I dabbled with Rosicrucianism, with various forms of western magic, but it made no sense to me either. What I ended up doing was strongly focusing on my personal situation and getting myself into a position where I was not deeply in debt.
So here I am trying to start doing The Work, trying to self observe and trying to see objective reality. Now here comes the shoe bit. I am happily married to a lovely lady for 13 years, in a very well paid position where I am respected and well though of, we are financially secure with no debt, own two lovely apartments,drive nice cars and have the latest mod cons. I have been trying to start doing the Work for the last 2 to 3 years, and yet the sky is not falling, I don't see any opposition to my attempts to embrace the Work, and the money keeps flowing in.
(OK, my first wife was a narcissist at the very least and made my life miserable for years and one of my three daughters is totally toxic so it has not been all sweetness and light), but I find myself wondering - either I have messed this up completely and I am embracing A influences and have been kidding myself about the Work OR if I have indeed managed to start down the path, WHY is my life still so darn good and pleasant? (Don't get me wrong either, I am incredibly grateful that my current situation is blessed and privileged compared to where many other people find themselves, but it does worry the heck out of me)
When is the other shoe going to drop...?
In terms of life path, I've been a spiritual seeker all my life, with frequent detours. When I was 20 I had a "conversion experience" and was a Pentecostal for some 14 years, was a lay preacher for a few of those years and eventually managed to extricate myself when I looked at my life and found what I was preaching was not real in my life and did not work. I dabbled with Rosicrucianism, with various forms of western magic, but it made no sense to me either. What I ended up doing was strongly focusing on my personal situation and getting myself into a position where I was not deeply in debt.
So here I am trying to start doing The Work, trying to self observe and trying to see objective reality. Now here comes the shoe bit. I am happily married to a lovely lady for 13 years, in a very well paid position where I am respected and well though of, we are financially secure with no debt, own two lovely apartments,drive nice cars and have the latest mod cons. I have been trying to start doing the Work for the last 2 to 3 years, and yet the sky is not falling, I don't see any opposition to my attempts to embrace the Work, and the money keeps flowing in.
(OK, my first wife was a narcissist at the very least and made my life miserable for years and one of my three daughters is totally toxic so it has not been all sweetness and light), but I find myself wondering - either I have messed this up completely and I am embracing A influences and have been kidding myself about the Work OR if I have indeed managed to start down the path, WHY is my life still so darn good and pleasant? (Don't get me wrong either, I am incredibly grateful that my current situation is blessed and privileged compared to where many other people find themselves, but it does worry the heck out of me)
When is the other shoe going to drop...?