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Dagobah Resident
I heard this story on National Public Radio this morning, and it moved me so much that I'd like to share it.
A man who was in the habit of eating at the same diner every night got off the train as usual and was about to exit the station when he was accosted by a teenager brandishing a knife who demanded his wallet.
The man said, "No problem. Here it is. It's yours."
The kid took the wallet and was exiting the station, when he heard the man call after him:
"Hey, take my coat too."
The kid turns around and sees that the man has taken off his jacket and is holding it out to him. He looks at the man and says, "Hey, why are you doing this?"
The man says, "If you're going to spend the night robbing people, you might as well be warm."
The kid takes the coat, and starts to walk away, when the man calls after him, "I was on my way to dinner. Are you hungry? Do you want to join me?"
The kid hesitates. Then he says "Yes".
When they enter the diner and sit down, all the wait staff, the cooks, the busboy, come over to say hello to the man.
The boy says, "What's this? Everybody knows you - even the dishwashes, and you're nice to everybody. What up with you; you the owner or something?"
The man says, "No, I'm not the owner, but I come here every night for dinner and I talk to everybody. I'm nice to the dishwashers and to everybody else."
Over dinner the man wants to find out more about this kid to give him a sense of why he is out robbing people. He asks him about his dreams, and goals, but the kid looks upset, so the man stops asking questions.
When the bill comes, the man says to the kid, " If you give me back my wallet, I can pick up the check."
The kid gives him back his wallet.
The man pays the check and gives the kid twenty dollars. Then he says, I'm giving you twenty dollars, but you have to give me something.
"What do you want me to give you?" the kid asks.
"I want you to give me the knife," the man says.
And the kid gives him the knife.
The man never learned why the kid felt that he needed to go around with a knife and rob people.
But the kid learned a lesson about kindness.
Obviously, this kid was not a psychopath - just a lost soul.
And the man was not a psychopath - just a person with understanding.
Imagine what the world would be like if everyone acted like the man in the story?
I don't know who kept the coat.
A man who was in the habit of eating at the same diner every night got off the train as usual and was about to exit the station when he was accosted by a teenager brandishing a knife who demanded his wallet.
The man said, "No problem. Here it is. It's yours."
The kid took the wallet and was exiting the station, when he heard the man call after him:
"Hey, take my coat too."
The kid turns around and sees that the man has taken off his jacket and is holding it out to him. He looks at the man and says, "Hey, why are you doing this?"
The man says, "If you're going to spend the night robbing people, you might as well be warm."
The kid takes the coat, and starts to walk away, when the man calls after him, "I was on my way to dinner. Are you hungry? Do you want to join me?"
The kid hesitates. Then he says "Yes".
When they enter the diner and sit down, all the wait staff, the cooks, the busboy, come over to say hello to the man.
The boy says, "What's this? Everybody knows you - even the dishwashes, and you're nice to everybody. What up with you; you the owner or something?"
The man says, "No, I'm not the owner, but I come here every night for dinner and I talk to everybody. I'm nice to the dishwashers and to everybody else."
Over dinner the man wants to find out more about this kid to give him a sense of why he is out robbing people. He asks him about his dreams, and goals, but the kid looks upset, so the man stops asking questions.
When the bill comes, the man says to the kid, " If you give me back my wallet, I can pick up the check."
The kid gives him back his wallet.
The man pays the check and gives the kid twenty dollars. Then he says, I'm giving you twenty dollars, but you have to give me something.
"What do you want me to give you?" the kid asks.
"I want you to give me the knife," the man says.
And the kid gives him the knife.
The man never learned why the kid felt that he needed to go around with a knife and rob people.
But the kid learned a lesson about kindness.
Obviously, this kid was not a psychopath - just a lost soul.
And the man was not a psychopath - just a person with understanding.
Imagine what the world would be like if everyone acted like the man in the story?
I don't know who kept the coat.