bedower
Jedi Master
This has been a very strange day, and links to my last post in 'Psychomatium' in a way I haven't been able to define yet.
Today is my eldest daughter's birthday, or would have been, had she not made the decision to take herself away from us.
My daughter died four years ago, and my hands are shaking so much I can barely type. I could not weep then, but I am weeping now. She was so much a part of me that her leaving seemed to rip out part of my essence. This wound still has not fully healed.
After her death, my youngest daughter made the decision to move the two us out of the family hame and away from the abusive man we lived with, whom I now know to have been a psychopath and full-blown narcissist. In our new home, I 'computered up', discovered SOTT, and the rest, as they say...
The point of this post is a poem I wrote about my daughters when they were both still young and innocent - 1981/2, not sure which. This is the verse about my first ewe lamb:
'Firstborn'
The first a daughter of the South,
full of sun and joy;
of laughing face and open heart.
As tall and straight of limb as the Reed,
for that was her country.
Hair not blond, but with sheen
as moonlight upon copper.
Quick to rage and laugh and weep.
Vulnerable.'
What terrible prescience made me write that last word?
Please do not think I am writing this to gain your sympathy; believe me, there is nothing anyone can, or has been able to say, that will ever lift this stony hand. She is with me always in the back of my mind, whatever else I am doing.
Thank you for reading this, my tribute to my dear, much-loved and always missed daughter.
Today is my eldest daughter's birthday, or would have been, had she not made the decision to take herself away from us.
My daughter died four years ago, and my hands are shaking so much I can barely type. I could not weep then, but I am weeping now. She was so much a part of me that her leaving seemed to rip out part of my essence. This wound still has not fully healed.
After her death, my youngest daughter made the decision to move the two us out of the family hame and away from the abusive man we lived with, whom I now know to have been a psychopath and full-blown narcissist. In our new home, I 'computered up', discovered SOTT, and the rest, as they say...
The point of this post is a poem I wrote about my daughters when they were both still young and innocent - 1981/2, not sure which. This is the verse about my first ewe lamb:
'Firstborn'
The first a daughter of the South,
full of sun and joy;
of laughing face and open heart.
As tall and straight of limb as the Reed,
for that was her country.
Hair not blond, but with sheen
as moonlight upon copper.
Quick to rage and laugh and weep.
Vulnerable.'
What terrible prescience made me write that last word?
Please do not think I am writing this to gain your sympathy; believe me, there is nothing anyone can, or has been able to say, that will ever lift this stony hand. She is with me always in the back of my mind, whatever else I am doing.
Thank you for reading this, my tribute to my dear, much-loved and always missed daughter.