But don't tell me about sacred cows as if you know me and you have everything figured out please.
I totally agree. I know it is not about Gaza, but I have had the same assumptions from my sister this week. She doesnt actually know me at all, even when we were at boarding school together. She has no idea about any of my studies, and how and what I dedicate my time to learning daily. We are nearly like chalk and cheese - as many peeps have also found these recent years with their own siblings.
Yet she coming out with so many self righteous / virtue signalling comments about me (when conversing with our family medium this week - for genuine reasons actually). But in the process was putting my down ( I have the recording). It was like a mutual gossip session lol.
The least of which was when she was sure that I did not have long to live (just because I have quite a few health issues and operation on 3rd Jan). She said well if Liz knew she only had one year to live she would go to pieces! (Like those who know my posts know I fear death less than anything and my signature supports that). She then said that for her she would be glad to know in advance so that she can plan everything and get her affairs in order. Lol well I am more over 'the other side' than I am here most of the time hehe - plus it is called self remembering
Apart from living in a total bubble, she always refuses my suggestions about everything - including her many and constant health issues. Just because it come from me hehe.
Anyway despite my very long, indepth and intense studies, and weekly safely guided mediumship practice as part of our Spiritist Group, (and spirit team helpers too), dedicated to helping suffering spirits, that was just one of her blind comments.
After I quickly stood on my own indignant ego, I thought the best response, though reluctantly, posted a numbered list to her of all the false statements/assumptions, hoping one day it may serve as a mirror.
However, the crux of the matter, and what truly upset me the most was that my son, Michael felt he had to intervene halfway through and say:
'It is my mum that you are talking about'!!!
Never, ever, in all my spiritual studies, have I ever come across a loved one having to intervene in a session, let alone to point out how spiteful and demeaning - apart from being wholly unspiritual, - the both of them were being. (The medium quickly changed tack, and my sister would have just brushed it off not realizing the consequences even).
Michael is with me a lot, and even mentioned that I know when he is around. So he knows exactly how I spend my time and how dedicated my time is spent to try to be a better helper, healer and advisor etc.
They know what motivates us and what our true intentions are,, where we err or excel etc. I don't think anyone on the planet can know us 100% not even spouses. Much can be read energetically, from the written/spoken word, and of course, by our deeds. But much is lost, not understood and assumed, therefore subjective.
So although I was grateful to Michael for chiming in on behalf of someone who was not there to defend herself, it hurt me considerably that this had to occur in the first place.
What was interesting was dissecting the whole episode, and even pointing out the medium's own assumptions, opinions, interpretations and even fabrications!!
(thus proving how difficult it can be for spirit to get their actual messages across - which they did miraculously, though with much patience!)
Coincidentially? or not I had our Medium's Book study straight after - and the very passage was what we discussed (No mistakes in the Universe lol).
I photographed the passage live and sent it across too. I will try to post it below off my phone because it underlies somewhat how I was being made a scapegoat for their own deficiencies.