This "judgment" thing is still confusing to me. For some "this" is a judgment, for other it isn't but "this" is. It comes down to judgments are subjective not objective (I think I read that in one of Laura's books?). I guess I'll be figuring that out too.I didn't see it as a judgment, just that you were able to look at something in a different and less constricting way. That's a good result of sharing your story and networking!
I am glad I shared this story though. The input from others has given me insight that I never had before. Thanks to all for providing another dimension to the story. (ha ha )