...he who cannot change the very fabric of his thought will never be able to change reality, and will never, therefore, make any progress.
Then Covey writes:
Change -real change- comes from the inside out. It doesn't come from hacking at the leaves of attitude and behaviour with quick fix personality ethic techniques. It comes from striking at the root - the fabric of our thought, the fundamental, essential paradigms, which give definition to our character and create the lens through which we see the world.
.. That is really inspiring and shows us what we can do in the direst circumstances when we use our thinking to change our subjective reality into a more objective one, OSIT.
Hi Breo,I just needed to read that, Mariama. To be reminded again and again to remember to take full responsibilty of the fabric and underlying paradigms that create scattered, negative thoughts and dissociation.
I took it as an interactive workbook when I read it, took 11 pages of notes, like I never did, went proactive on this. I made the circles of preoccupations and influences, wrote the visualization of my funeral and my panegyric. That helps to realize what's important and what's not. A great exercise.I am halfway through the book and started wondering about this personal mission statement Covey is talking about in his book. Did anyone write a statement like that, and do you think it is helpful?
It is so inspiring that I will use some parts or pieces with my guys at the prison.
It's good to have more ways than one to deal with these issues, and we need all the help we can get.
It's the source of intrinsic security you need to sharpen the saw in the social/emotional dimension.
I wrote my first draft of my personal mission statement last night. At first I didn't know what to write, so I used an example in the book. And then somehow I kept writing and all kinds of things popped up in my head. But my statement now looks more like a to-do list! Perhaps this makes sense, since a lot of work is involved living up to one's principles?
I really like his idea of spending (a minimum of) one hour a day 'sharpening the saw', like reading, writing, meditation, exercise; the physical, mental and spiritual dimensions.
I think it does! But just in case you haven't seen it, Aragorn recommended the companion book a while back. I read it and thought it was very good. It gives you a better idea of how to write the Statement of Principles. To me it sounds like an "ideal self" more than a to-do list. But I confess I haven't written mine fully yet. So kudos to you!