The Living Force
I have to take issue with this lack of external consideration. Female genitals are one of the most amazing and courageous human organs around. Ever seen a childbirth? It’s also misogynistic Equating female with weakness. I never liked this term. Forgive me for sounding like a prissy Snowflake about this. I get the usage and meaning. I get it is standard locker room talk. I think we can and should do better here on this forum.
It's only an insult when directed at men, specifically because behaving like women is not appropriate for men. Yes, women of course have their own virtues, and demonstrate strength and courage in their own way ... but feminine strength is not masculine strength, and in my opinion we're experiencing a severe deficit of the former, which is to a large degree why we all find ourselves in the predicament we're in.
And that absence of masculine virtue is almost 100% due to men being shamed for everything they do and say, locker room talk most especially included, such that every time they use a naughty word they get dogpiled, resulting in a chilling effect and men just holding their tongue lest they trip over yet another arbitrary boundary.
Further, implicit in your remark is that such language would only be used by men. It isn't. I've heard women use it many a time, in order to shame men for not acting like men. Which I'm all in favor of.
One thing I've never heard: such terminology being deployed as an insult to women. Everyone who uses it understands implicitly that would be a category error.
Long reply, tangential to the thread topic; however, I for one am entirely sick of language policing everywhere else in society, and firmly believe that "we can and should do better here on this forum."