bjorn said:
[quote author= CrazyDaisy]I sometimes have a somewhat interesting conversation with someone that doesn't seem too bad. Next thing I know a part of my soul is gone. Why do I keep attracting soul suckers?
Maybe the lesson here is that energetically we 'allow' our energy to be eaten. Becoming conscious of it is the antidote.
[quote author= August 28, 1999 ]A: STS does not eat according to protocol.
Q: What does that mean?
A: What do you suppose?
Q: I have no idea!
A: STS "eats" whatever it wants to, if it is able.
Q: That's what we said. If you are STO in an STS world, you are basically defenseless and they eat you.
A: No.
Q: Why? What makes STO unavailable or 'inedible?'
A: Frequency resonance not in sync.[/quote]
The trick is I think, to practice non-anticipation / non-attachment when we seek out conversations. If you desire to gain something out of it for the self (Ego) and it doesn't turn out like desired you may get drained.
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I don't know if this is what was meant or not, but I
think one aspect of the inedible/unavailable quality isn't that it's not possible to feed, per se. -But rather it is simply that the difference in frequency resonance makes it so frustrating to be around those people who vibrate to a different beat that you eventually just get fed up and start avoiding each other. -Like you the predator are both emitting a high pitched whine which is irritating to the other.
There have been several people I know who I found extremely draining, (with whom I could practically
see the energy transfer in progress in all ways just shy of special lighting effects). -But we disagreed on fundamental principles regarding everything. Even walking beside them on a stretch of sidewalk got to be annoying. (You can't jaywalk! Don't step there. Stand back from the cross walk if you're not crossing!) Authoritarians and materialists are maddening to be around, and so there were eventually blowups. We avoid each other now, and so by default, feeding cannot take place. I think it might be that simple.
It has happened a few times with different people, with similar results. Energy was saved, and life got instantly better! -And the basket being thus emptied made room for better tuned people.
When I became aware of this pattern, I started deliberately seizing on it and proactively cutting people out of my life.
I still find myself side swiped by draining people fairly regularly, but that comes with being out in public social spaces. With enough knowledge, however, I find I can minimize the feeding and turn away the materialsts and authoritarians and various other hungry critters.
Side note: I've on a couple of occasions, discovered that the hungriest and most destructive of the vampires who purport to be strict materialists and huge deniers of anything to do with spirit, are often in reality
extremely aware of the spirit world and are sometimes occupied by some truly nasty ride-alongs. Denying that energy exists is a great way to prevent people from having any defenses whatsoever.
It's a lot easier to just stay isolated some days, but I don't think that's altogether healthy. You can't walk in the woods without mosquitoes.