Thanks parallel.
Well big pappa, it seems that something is off. If you live alone, then who has access to your phone?
Or perhaps it was sent via text? Or perhaps you are full of it?
Sorry to be blunt, but it is easy to parade around online, and I know you say you are not trying to scam anybody, so perhaps, if you plan to stick around for awhile, take a look through the forum and continue to interact and participate.
As it stands now, you have registered and posted your first time with something like this which is hard to believe.
Some will give you benefit of doubt, if you are sincere, but even sincerity has its limits in terms of growth & knowledge.
By best guess is that the boys you asked are messing with you. Or you are messing with us.
LOL
Welcome.