If some of you want to expand your readings on narcissism here is a link with resources:
http://www.controllingparents.com/links.htmAll the listed books have links to amazon where you can read reviews, some pages of the books, etc and check if it might be helpful. I found the link through the book Controlling Parents, which I'm currently reading.
The recommended books in QFS on narcissism/trauma are listed there (except for Myth of Sanity and Unholy Hungers). The QFS list is the priority and the basic reading on the subject because it has proved to be quite useful, but sometimes and for some of us, it might be helpful to read other stuff too.
Here are some of the books listed about unhealthy narcissism:
Why Is It Always About You? Saving Yourself from the Narcissists in Your Life Sandy Hotchkiss, 2002
Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self Elan Golomb, 1992
The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman and Robert Pressman, 1997
Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents Nina Brown, 2001
The Destructive Narcissistic Pattern Nina Brown, 1998
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self Alice Miller, 1996
If You Had Controlling Parents: How to Make Peace with Your Past and Take Your Place in the World Dan Neuharth, 1999
I read most of them except for Nina Brown's book which I have and checked and so far I found them all very useful to get a grasp in the subject that could be useful in a daily basis. My all time favorite is Trapped in the Mirror, probably because it was the first one I read on the subject and probably because I love the author's style
Narcissism - Resources and links