Hmm,
you might go try some hypnosis to get a feel for it.
This is most definately NOT recommended. You can do some real damage to yourself, and possibly someone else.
Remember, that good practice comes from theory! If you are finding it hard to "connect" the threads, then you need more study and research, at a certain point, things will "click" and you will see the applications of theory.
I personally had to read hundreds of books over many many years, before I read a single phrase that set it all in motion. Now, I wasn't actually looking for hypnosis at all, I was looking for stuff on the martial arts, and decided that some of what these masters where doing was basically mass hypnosis, so I hit google, and bam.
To answer your question, I firmly believe in the Aikido principle of compound opposing forces which is also found in Small Circle Jujitsu. You need to use all the techniques availible to you that can conceiveably be applied to the current situation, all the prinicples must be applied at the same time in order for things to be successful, this ties into perspicacity and the like, you gain knowledge so that you can apply it.